AI Will Free Us to Be More Human. But What If We've Forgotten How?
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At the World Economic Forum in Davos, Dr. Becky Kennedy sat on a panel stage beneath the familiar blue WEF logo and made the room uncomfortable. The conversation around her focused on AI eliminating menial tasks so humans could do "the more human stuff" -- connect with each other, be creative, thrive. Her response cut against the grain of the optimism in the room: what if we have already degraded the very human capacities that AI is supposed to free up?
The Blind Spot in the AI Optimism Narrative
Kennedy described a pattern she had noticed across meeting after meeting at Davos. Leaders kept repeating a version of the same promise: AI handles the boring work, humans handle the meaningful work. Connection. Creativity. Emotional intelligence. The framing assumes those skills are just sitting there, waiting to be deployed once the calendar clears up.
Kennedy's pushback is simple. The humans who are supposedly going to connect and create have been systematically trained out of those abilities. The mechanism is friction removal. Every product, platform, and convenience layer we build is designed to reduce discomfort. And discomfort, Kennedy argues, is the raw material of human capability.
Time Under Tension Builds More Than Muscle
Kennedy borrowed a concept from exercise science: time under tension. In strength training, muscle grows when it stays under load for sustained periods. She applied the same logic to emotional development. Tolerating frustration, sitting with uncertainty, working through friction -- these experiences build the psychological capacity that underlies everything from making a phone call to producing original creative work.
Speaking directly to the audience from a cushioned panel chair, gesturing with her hands pressed together for emphasis, Kennedy laid out the connection plainly. If we raise children in a world that constantly reduces friction, we shrink their ability to tolerate it. And frustration tolerance is the foundational skill behind the "human stuff" that AI optimists keep celebrating.
Creativity Requires Tolerating Uncertainty
One of the sharpest points in the clip is Kennedy's definition of creativity. She frames it as the ability to tolerate uncertainty long enough to keep creating -- to trust the process, sit with not knowing, and produce something anyway. That is a skill built through practice with discomfort, not through convenience. If the path to every answer is frictionless, the capacity to generate new answers atrophies.
This reframes the AI conversation. The question is not just "what will humans do when AI handles the rest?" The question is whether humans will still have the emotional infrastructure to do any of it well.
Key Takeaways
- The mainstream AI narrative assumes humans will naturally fill freed-up time with connection and creativity, but those capacities require development through friction and discomfort.
- "Time under tension" applies to emotional growth the same way it applies to physical strength. Reducing friction in daily life reduces the ability to tolerate it.
- Creativity depends on the ability to sit with uncertainty. A frictionless environment undermines that ability at a foundational level.
- The real risk is not that AI replaces humans, but that we arrive at an AI-augmented world with humans who have been "downgraded" by the very convenience culture that preceded it.
- Any serious conversation about AI and human potential needs to account for how we are raising the next generation of humans, not just how we are building the next generation of tools.
Published May 26, 2026. Writeup generated from a favorited TikTok.